Selena Gomez in blue bikini

This is the time of year when the urge to have a girlfriend can get pretty strong. Every guy wants to have a beautiful girl to enjoy the good weather with, and especially since women start to dress a lot more revealing, you are probably facing a lot of temptation. But, unless you really have the skills to just attract a girlfriend with ease, then you might still be wondering what you can do.

Getting a girlfriend can definitely be a challenge, and more than likely, you have been taught methods of attraction that are just plain ineffective. That's okay. As long as you are willing to open yourself up to some new ideas and tips to get a girlfriend, then you can suddenly find yourself attracting women like it was EASY!

Here are some tips to help you attract a woman and make her yours:

1. Women love to meet men that just don't stress out over all of the little things. A pretty common trait that I have seen with guys that are kind of struggling to meet and attract women, is that they tend to put too much pressure on all of the little things. Of course, if you do this, then you are going to give off a much different vibe than if you just relax and realize that you don't have to worry about the little things so much.

2. Women are interested in guys that are...INTERESTING. If you carry on long and dull conversations, then what do you think a woman is going to be thinking? She's going to be thinking that she wants to get away from you and meet a guy that is interesting. Now, every guy can carry on an interesting conversation as long as you shy away from talking about the wrong topics and add in a little bit of spice here and there.

3. If she is going to be your girlfriend, then she has to feel MASSIVE sexual attraction to you. It can be just a little bit, and it can't be non-existent. It has to be MASSIVE. So, how do you get there? Well, you have to understand that women have "triggers," things that will turn them on and keep them turned on for quite a while. Hit those triggers and she will WANT to be your girlfriend. Ignore those triggers and you can say hello to being without a girlfriend for some extra time.